Serving Together: Building a Ministry and Marriage as a Team

Marriage is a gift from God, and when it’s rooted in love and shared purpose, it becomes a powerful foundation for ministry. Serving alongside my wife, Jenny, in the work of the Lord has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. Together, we’ve built not only a family but also a ministry, leaning on each other’s strengths and growing in love as we serve as a team.

A Partnership in Ministry

From the very beginning, Jenny and I have approached our marriage as a partnership. We met while attending Hyles-Anderson College, both eager to follow God’s calling in our lives. When we married, we committed not only to each other but also to the shared mission of spreading the gospel and serving others. That shared purpose has been the cornerstone of our marriage and our ministry.

Working in the ministry requires unity and teamwork. Jenny is not just my wife; she’s my partner in every sense of the word. She supports me in countless ways, from helping organize church events to counseling women in the congregation, teaching in the Christian school, and raising our four children. Her love and dedication inspire me daily and remind me of the value of having a partner who is equally invested in the work God has called us to do.

Balancing Marriage and Ministry

One of the challenges of working in ministry is finding the balance between serving others and nurturing our marriage. The demands of pastoring a church, running a Bible Institute, and leading a Christian school can be overwhelming, but Jenny and I have learned the importance of prioritizing our relationship.

We make time for one another, even in the busiest seasons, because we know that a strong marriage is essential for a thriving ministry. Whether it’s taking a walk together, sharing a meal, or simply praying as a couple, these moments of connection strengthen our bond and remind us why we’re doing this work in the first place.

Growing Together Through Challenges

Every marriage faces challenges, and ministry can sometimes magnify them. We’ve walked through financial struggles, spiritual battles, and the pressures of leading a congregation. But through it all, we’ve leaned on God and on each other. These trials have not only strengthened our faith but also deepened our love and commitment to one another.

Jenny’s unwavering support during difficult times has been a constant source of encouragement. Her calm presence and wise counsel have helped me navigate some of the most challenging seasons of ministry. In turn, I strive to be a source of strength for her, reminding her that we’re in this together and that God is always faithful.

The Joy of Serving as a Team

One of the greatest joys of working in ministry with Jenny is seeing how God uses our unique gifts to complement each other. While I focus on preaching, leading, and training future church planters, Jenny pours her heart into teaching, counseling, and building relationships within the church. Together, we’re able to reach more people and serve more effectively than we ever could on our own.

Our shared love for the people of Mexico and our commitment to God’s calling have created a bond that goes beyond marriage—it’s a shared mission. Whether we’re knocking on doors, organizing events, or praying with a hurting church member, we do it together, united in purpose and love.

Encouragement for Couples in Ministry

If you’re serving in ministry as a couple, I want to encourage you: make your marriage a priority, lean on each other’s strengths, and never forget the importance of love and teamwork. Ministry can be demanding, but it’s also deeply rewarding, especially when you have a partner who shares your heart for the work.

Remember, your marriage is not just a foundation for your ministry; it’s also a reflection of God’s love to the world. By loving and supporting one another, you’re not only strengthening your relationship but also providing a powerful testimony of God’s design for marriage.

Conclusion

Working alongside Jenny in ministry has taught me that love and teamwork are at the heart of a successful marriage and a thriving ministry. Together, we’ve faced challenges, celebrated victories, and grown in faith and love. As a team, we’re stronger, more effective, and more united in our calling to serve God.

Marriage and ministry are both gifts from God, and when they come together, they create something truly beautiful. I’m grateful every day for the opportunity to serve alongside my wife, building a life and a legacy of love and faith as a team.